Heart, home and faith have always been important to
Lisa Jordan, so writing stories with those elements come naturally. She is an award-winning author for Love Inspired, writing novels that promise hope & happily ever after. Happily married for nearly thirty years, she and her husband have two grown sons. When she isn’t writing, Lisa enjoys family time, good books, crafting with friends and kayaking. Visit her at
www.lisajordanbooks.com.
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Creating a Beautiful Love Story Romance
As
a reader and a writer, I believe there’s a difference between a love story and
a romance. To me, a love story doesn’t always have a happy ending, hope of a
happy ending, or a happily ever after. A romance always has a happily ever
after.
We
were created for love and relationships. God, our Heavenly Father, modeled
perfect love for each one of us. However, we are flawed and things don’t always
go the way we imagine.
When
I became serious about writing for publication, I knew I wanted to write
romance novels where the hero and heroine, by the story’s end, pledge their
love and vow to spend their lives together. Of course, it’s a bit more
complicated than that. In fact, it’s the characters’ journeys, the obstacles
they overcome, and the lessons they learn on the way to that HEA that makes the
story worth reading. If they meet and fall in love without any challenges, it
makes for a boring story.
As
a happily-ever-after girl for as long as I can remember, I was naïve in how
love, marriage, and romance actually worked. I believed the Disney cartoons,
rom-coms, and hundreds of books I’d read.
It
wasn’t until I had gotten married at the ripe old age of twenty that I realized
marriage is work. Hard work! And then if children are involved, then it becomes
even harder. But it’s worth it.
My
romance began when I was nineteen and working as a waitress in a local family
restaurant. I met a handsome young (and hot!) Marine home on leave, and we
decided to become pen pals. This was over thirty years ago, so there wasn’t
texting or FaceTime, so we wrote letters. Two months into our friendship, we
realized we wanted more and became a couple. For eighteen months, my husband
courted me through letters, phone calls, and the occasional home visit until
his next orders prevented the quick trips. Tired of being apart, we eloped. In
October, we will celebrate thirty-two years of marriage.
But
our happily ever after didn’t end at “I do.” In fact, it was just beginning. We
had to learn to share our lives together in person. We had to learn the fine
art of compromise, speaking in ways that built each other up, and learn how to
apologize.
When
I started writing, I realized all of my heroes had qualities of my husband. And
for good reason. My husband is my real-life hero. He’s seen me at my worst and
still loves me. He helps to bring out my best. I’m a better person for knowing
him, loving him, and growing in my faith because of him. We don’t always see
eye to eye, but we stand together on our love for each other.
When
writing romance novels, it’s important to show the growth of flawed characters
and to allow our characters to work through those obstacles together. Not only
will it strengthen the novel, but it gives them a foundation to live out their
own beautiful romance.
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